Wife - beloved woman or housekeeper?

Many people know the truth "Woman - the keeper of the family hearth". To keep the hearth means to keep love in the family, comfort and life of your home. It has long been believed that the lot of the weaker sex is housekeeping and caring for her husband and children. And in those days, a man was given hard work - to plow and sow, to work in a forge, etc. But nowadays such work is becoming less and less, respectively, the range of men's duties is narrowed. And women have become more independent and independent ... But for some reason they remained wives-housemaids.

Everyone knows that a household is troublesome. The average woman makes a lot of effort to her house was clean, comfortable, hospitable. Meanwhile, almost every modern housewife also has the main work, coming with which she “goes on the second shift” - at the stove, at the ironing board, at the sewing machine ...

“What is the difference between a wife and a housekeeper? A housekeeper is a woman who does work for a special fee, and a woman who does it for free is called a wife. ” It is possible that sometimes each spouse finds what he needs in this situation and feels comfortable. A man has a free housekeeper, and a woman has an illusion that she is with a man, that she is not alone.

Or maybe it is worthwhile to teach men to help us with the housework, because there are not so many “helpers-husbands” (about 30–40%).

Every man tries to follow the rules and regulations that existed in the family of his parents. And if his mother kept the whole household, then he will expect the same from you. You need to talk to your husband about how you see a rational distribution of household duties. Let him have specific instructions: take out the trash, clean the toilet, wash the bath. You can not go on about the partner and do the work for him, which he must do independently. And we must not forget that the sooner the spouse is involved in homework, the better for you. So he will fully feel the responsibility for the family, get used to the role of the husband and the owner of the house.

And you definitely need to thank your spouse, emphasize the importance of his business, then he will always be with you - so loyal, reliable, gentle, ready to help ...

Helen Rowland’s statement that “the happiest wife is not the one who got the best husband, but the one that made the best of what she was able to get” fits very well into this situation.

The wife is, first of all, the beloved woman, and we make the housemaids from ourselves, because we do not immediately decide to share the responsibilities with the spouse.

It turns out that much depends on the woman herself. If she is satisfied with the life of a housemaid, then what’s the point of trying to change something in a man and expressing her claims to him ...

Watch the video: K-Drama Single Wife eng sub (March 2020).

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