In fairness, it is necessary to note the fact that now they are trying to limit this “freedom”. Even the ideologists of family “emancipation” are inclined to believe that without a strong family, no progress can be made. Only a strong family can serve as a reliable foundation for a strong state.
Well, and if you push aside the emotions and try to look at the specific results of scientists geneticists? So, an English specialist in this field, Robin Baker and his group, after many years of observation, came to the conclusion that 11% of their children (every ninth child!) Did not belong to the legitimate father, and in most cases the mothers themselves did not know about it. In a study under hypnosis, it turned out that these children are the result of one-time sexual relationships, which the mother in half of the cases simply did not remember.
Many scientists believe that women themselves have laid the gene for sexual infidelity, which is most active in the periods of ovulation. In this regard, the question arises: if 11% of married women conceived a child from single relationships on the side, how many such contacts did occur at all?
Statistics provides an answer to this question. One pregnancy accounts for 45–50 unprotected contacts. It is not difficult to guess what conclusions we are trying to draw. It turns out that almost 100% of married women had short-term contacts on the side, and most of them had repeated contacts.
On the color and taste, of course, no comrades. Many of the above statistics may not be considered as treason. But short-term contacts often tend to outgrow into longer novels. And here scientists collected a unique material. It is known that both husbands and wives change. So, the root cause of male infidelity is not always intra-family problems. Even if the matrimonial relationship is close to perfect, the man will not give up the opportunity to start a romance on the side. Another thing is that men do not know how to keep this relationship a secret: sooner or later, their wives will find out about it.
The nature of women's novels is somewhat different. More often than not, married women have a serious affair on the side because of resentment towards her husband. Especially if she is constantly subjected to humiliation and insults. And what gives her a new novel? Thrill sensations? Yes. But this is not important. In the new novel, she regains her inner confidence in her own attractiveness and that she deserves love and admiration. For this she can decide on intimacy on the side.
Another thing is that a woman does not have enough of a one-time feeling that she is a WOMAN, beautiful and unique. She wants to again and again to experience such feelings. And does not notice how attached to his "tempter". Mind, she understands that the novel can not last long, but with feelings can not do anything. Unlike men, women can perfectly hide their “left” relationships. But, unlike men, it is women, in the name of preserving the family, who are able to recognize the fact of their own betrayal.
P.S. The reason for change is not hidden in the far-fetched genes of infidelity, but in the person himself. Proof of this can be thousands and thousands of happy families dominated by Love, Understanding and inexhaustible interest in each other.